Deeds, romantic on screen, but not in real life
When I was younger, I could spend hours watching romantic movies and admire my favorite actors and their actions that lead girls into raptures. How could I make a mistake in a relationship if I had so many hours of study material? Then I was younger and therefore more stupid than they are today. I had no idea about the realities of love, and only when I started dating girls, I realized the importance of practical points
Do you think, kissing in the rain - it's romantic? The heroes did in the movie "The Notebook," but when you try to bring the magic of the film to life, then most likely, you feel only frustration. I offer you moments romantic on screen, but not in real life.
Kissing in the rain
You know what I think first of all, caught in the rain? Wet, uncomfortable, cold and want to go home. I like very much the girl, but if she asks to stop for five minutes of dramatic speech in the rain, followed by a passionate kiss, I thought she was crazy. Not to say that in a situation there was no romantic potential, but a chance to be unpleasant at it a lot longer. Call me abnormal, but I do not want to start with the need for sex 10 minutes towel.
to drop into a restaurant without a reservation
Do you know what is the sexiest thing in the world? Practicality! Do you know what movies often ignored? Reality! Often in romantic films the two main characters wander in a fancy restaurant, eat a great dinner, pay and go - before you know it. Of course, see them standing would not be so attractive in the queue, but I'm sure if you looked into the restaurant on Valentine's Day, then you would also realize the importance of pre-order. Go without reservations is not as romantic or easy in real life.
Meet in the gym and play sports together
Ever seen a movie where the couple meets in the gym? Suddenly, a spark flies, and here they are already together. I have great news for you: in real life, the gym - one of the worst places in the world for meetings. Both of you are thinking about what muscles are pumped up, glistening with sweat, and you are unlikely to come to the gym with the idea to come out with a partner. Sure, exercise can be helpful in personal life (to be fit). But do not believe the movies, this is not the sexual activity in the world.
do anything, seeking a meeting
Lloyd Dobler from "Say Anything" very romantic, right? He was not nasty, not crazy, not possessed, and does not pass the borders. But you know, in real life, if you stand under someone's window with a tape recorder in his hand shouting, instead of happy ending can get an injunction to approach the person. If someone tells you "no", hear it. Life - this is not a fun game where you have to demonstrate their perseverance.
Share a meal in a restaurant
So romantic and fun to share a meal with your partner. Only if the food is not spaghetti, and you suddenly find yourself covered in sauce. When choosing a dish that you want to share, make sure that it is easily divisible. When you cut the burger in half and the sauce pouring all around - it is a sad sight.
A room full of candles
Perhaps, many installed in the room of candles and really emphasize the romantic moments. But in reality, not particularly convenient to make love among all these candles. Not so sexy - make careful movements to avoid being start a fire. Not to mention the fact that the installation of a large number of candles will take a lot of time, and your partner will have to wait.
Take a shower or bath with
Do not get me wrong, health - one of the sexiest things. But in the life of the joint shower or bath can be not so sexy. Firstly, your bath should be large enough to accommodate two people. Then you realize that the water quickly washes grease, making the process more painful than sexy. Among other things, you know, that thing is not sexy? Slipping on the soap and fall in seduction! Take a shower, then make love, or change the order, but to confuse these two things - not a good idea.
The sudden marriage proposal
There will be no more important decision in your life than satellite selection. Not so important who you work with, you will not want to go home in the evening, if you do not love your spouse. So do not expect from your partner's instant approval on a sudden proposal, even if it looks in the movies so romantic. I'm not saying that you should definitely set a date in advance, but the two of you should discuss it long before you get down on one knee.
Do not let the beloved on the plane
In the series "Friends" is the moment where the guy admits love to a girl before boarding the flight to which she replied: "I can not drop everything right now, I'm sorry." Any realist, watching this episode, deems it a normal reaction, because who tells about love right before boarding the plane? You've had all day, all week, but just you wait until the last moment? You're not romantic. You're an insensitive dolt who could not express their feelings, while in your head is not "a gun". Not to mention the fact that the cancellation of the ticket is worth the money. Although I always cry at the point where it comes out of the plane.
The next morning,
Do you think that if your partner is fine in the morning, just woke up? I am blessed, because yes, I think so. I love my girl, and for me it is great at any time. However, many are shocked when I wake up in the morning not with those with whom you fell asleep. Especially if the partner has led from the bar and was involved alcohol. In the movie, show, if you can turn from side to side and just make love, but know that it is impossible to overestimate? Brush your teeth!